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    • Satisfaction guaranteed / Restaurant / Gourmet
    • 2024/05/31 (Fri)

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    For those who can't decide which menu to choose, we also offer an omakase course.

    We offer an omakase course.

    ・ All dishes are so attractive that you cannot choose
    ・ We highly recommend this course for those who want to try popular dishes ！


    You will enjoy all attractive dishes such as cooked rice and A5 ranked Japanese beef. and A5 grade Wagyu beef.

    We have a wide selection of sake, so you can choose the right drink to match your meal for an even more wonderful dining experience.

    We will entertain you with all our heart so that your meal at SAITO will be unforgettably special.

    • Discount / Auto / Motorcycle
    • 2024/05/02 (Thu)

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    When was the last time you had a routine inspection of your car ？?

    If you use your car on a daily basis, do you perform regular inspections ？

    We recommend a comprehensive inspection of your car once or twice a year ！

    Regular inspections are very important not only to prevent problems but also to extend the life of your precious car. It is very important not only to prevent problems, but also to prolong the life of your beloved car.
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    ① Check your air conditioner before it gets too hot up ！
    ② Check your car through the cold weather.　 （ Brake pipe replacement, etc. ）

    Prevent major breakdowns by inspecting in advance. ！
    We recommend [periodic inspection] because of the expensive repair costs after a breakdown.

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    • Wanted / Education / Lesson
    • 2024/05/24 (Fri)

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    One year of OPT is available after completion of the course ！.

    California Music School is now accepting new students in a big way.

    "California College of Music" is the only school in Los Angeles that accepts students from beginner to advanced

    We will teach in small groups with great care.
    Lessons focus on music of American origin ！

    Japanese-speaking staff are also available.

    Tuition may be discounted ！

    After completing the course, you will have the opportunity to obtain a one-year OPT and work legally in the US.

    Come study music with us at the California College of Music with easy access ♪.

    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/05/05 (Sun)

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    What is the magic wand that keeps a good marriage ？ ？

    Communication is the "magic wand" of the marital relationship. When wielded correctly, it can deepen the love between a couple, but when mishandled, it can turn into a briar thorn of frustration and misunderstanding. In order for couples to understand each other deeply, it is essential to hone the art of communication. So how can we learn to use this "magic wand" better ？

    ＜ A Sense of Choosing Words ＞

    First, word choice is important. Avoid critical or offensive language, and use words such as "I... feel" or "I need... need," choose words that express your feelings and needs. This allows for a more open dialogue without making the other person defensive. This way of communicating is called an "I-message.

    For example, let's say the person you are talking to is always late and you always feel bad about it. Instead of saying, "Why are you always late ！," you can say, "It bothers me so much when you are late because it makes it impossible for me to make plans." This is a way of communicating.

    ＜ The Virtue of Listening ＞

    Listening to the other person is of utmost importance. While the other person is speaking, focus all your attention there. Look them in the face, nod your head, and try to understand their emotions. This will make the other person feel valued and create a space where they can speak freely about what they want to say. Responding animatedly while looking at your phone, is a no-no.

    Think back to the beginning of your relationship. You must have been acting like that because you wanted to be trusted by your partner and to build a good relationship with him or her.

    ＜ The Power of Nonverbal Communication ＞

    You can communicate love in ways other than words. For example, positive nonverbal communication such as hugs, holding hands, and kind glances can do more than words. These small gestures can convey great reassurance and affection.

    If your relationship is already deteriorating and you can't do that, start by looking them in the eye.

    ＜ The Power of Problem Solving ＞

    When problems arise, focus on solving them, not attacking. Instead of, "Can you..." Rather than, "How can we ？ solve the problem?" it is important to be willing to work together to solve the problem. This increases the sense that the two of you are a team.

    ＜ Finding Expressions of Love ＞

    Find ways to express love that your partner values most. Different people feel love in different languages: words, time, service behaviors, gifts, physical contact, etc. Understanding each other's "love languages" and expressing love accordingly will deepen your relationship.

    Communication in a marital relationship is truly magical. By skillfully using this "magic wand," you can deepen your understanding of each other and your love for each other. Starting today, use these tips to create new magic in your marital relationship ？

    At the ADR Center for Families, we offer counseling not only for divorce but also for relationship restoration.
    Please feel free to contact us.

    To apply for couples counseling, please visit the following URL
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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/05/04 (Sat)

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    Marital relations will improve if you learn to handle your emotions better⁈

    ・ I tend to get emotional
    ・ I can't communicate my feelings well
    ・ I can't tell what my partner is thinking

    Issues such as these are the main problems that haunt couples.

    So often, if you and your partner can handle your emotions correctly, your relationship will be more fulfilling and satisfying. This column offers specific ways to improve your understanding and expression of emotions.

    ＜ Identify Emotions Specifically ＞

    Before you express your emotions, first identify what you are feeling specifically. If you feel "frustrated," ask yourself, "Why am I frustrated ？ Maybe it's from anxiety ？?" Naming the emotion will help you identify its cause and how to deal with it.

    Then, you may find that what you thought was irritating about what the other person was saying or doing was the cause or root of the problem, which was your distrust of the other person or your sense of inferiority.

    Suppose, for example, your partner attends a drinking party attended by the opposite sex. At such a time, you are waiting for your partner to come home with a very irritated feeling. Where does that irritation come from?

    It may be that you are not simply angry with your partner, but that your partner's behavior in the past has made it difficult for you to trust him or her, or it may be rooted in a sense of inferiority that says, "I'm going to be thrown away soon anyway.

    ＜ Keeping an Emotion Diary ＞

    In couple counseling, I often feel that people are surprisingly unaware of their feelings.

    For example, when I ask, "What kinds of things do couples often quarrel about ？?" many people say, "Little things." but they cannot be very specific.

    It is difficult to understand what makes them angry, what situations make them want to cry, even about themselves.

    In such cases, you can understand your emotional patterns by recording your daily emotions. By tracking what emotions arise in what situations, you will gain a better understanding of yourself and be able to express your emotions appropriately.

    ＜ Expressing Emotions Non-Aggressively ＞

    When communicating emotions, avoid using accusatory "you are - therefore I am -" language and focus on your feelings by saying "I feel -. This will make the other person less defensive and allow for a more constructive conversation. This is called an "I message.

    ＜ Accept your partner's emotions ＞

    When your partner is expressing emotions, it is important to listen carefully and try to understand. Do not interrupt the other person, but accept the emotion and show empathy. This allows the other person to talk openly about his or her feelings.

    Listening carefully and empathizing with the other person's feelings is not equal to bending your opinion to agree with them.

    Once you have heard and understood the other person's point of view, you can still express your own opinion.

    If you are not sure about the abstract, just try to "listen to the other person's side of the story".

    ＜ Exploring the Needs Behind Emotions ＞

    Emotions often arise from unmet needs. When listening to a person's emotions, try to understand what the needs behind them are. This will bring you closer to a fundamental solution to the problem.

    For example, suppose your partner gets grumpy every time you go home to your parents. What are the needs behind that grumpiness? Maybe he wants more attention for himself, or he wants you to spend more time with your family. Or perhaps they want you to go home with them to your own family, or they are concerned about the cost of returning home.

    ＜ Share positive emotions too ＞

    Be willing to share positive emotions such as joy and gratitude. Sharing positive emotions strengthens the relationship and deepens our understanding of each other.

    Very often when a couple's relationship is deteriorating, this is not being done. As a clue to improvement, try to offer cheerful topics of conversation, such as what you enjoyed today, what was delicious, or anything else you can think of.

    ＜ When emotions run high, temporarily keep your distance ＞

    When emotions run high and you cannot talk calmly, it is useful to temporarily keep your distance. Discuss again when you have cooled down. Taking this time will allow for a more constructive dialogue. After a heated argument, do you sometimes regret saying "I said too much" when you think about it after a night's sleep? Apologizing there may improve the relationship, but too much arguing can be irreversible.

    ＜ Seek Professional Help If Needed ＞

    If you are struggling to manage or express your emotions, seeking professional help through counseling or therapy is an option. Having a professional intervene can help you become aware of communication habits and points of failure that you may not be aware of on your own.

    Understanding and properly expressing feelings can have a significant impact on the well-being of a couple's relationship. By practicing these steps, you can strengthen your relationship with your partner and make it more satisfying.

    Our center offers counseling for relationship improvement as well as divorce.
    Please feel free to contact us.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling
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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/05/07 (Tue)

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    How to Repair Shattered Trust ？ A Revitalization Guide for Couples

    I don't trust you anymore."
    "If you don't trust me, we'll have to break up."

    Many of us have probably had this kind of exchange.

    Trust is essential to a good marriage. In this column, I would like to share with you what actions are effective in building trust and how to repair trust once it has been damaged.

    ＜ Honesty ＞
    Telling the truth is the most basic element of trust. Even small lies can become big problems when they accumulate. Being truthful is the key to building trust. In other words, not lying is the most basic of basics.

    ＜ Keep Your Promises ＞
    Keep what you promise, no matter how small. Keeping your word is proof that your word is trustworthy.

    ＜ Consistency ＞
    Consistency of behavior is also important in building trust. Predictable and consistent behavior puts others at ease.

    ＜ Expressing Appreciation ＞
    Showing appreciation for your partner's actions and recognizing their efforts makes them feel valued and deepens trust.

    ＜ Support ＞
    Supporting your partner during difficult times is a powerful way to build trust. Supporting each other strengthens the bond between two people.

    ＜ Admit ＞
    Admitting mistakes and openly discussing them is the first step in repair. Don't be defensive; accept responsibility.

    ＜ Apologize ＞
    A sincere apology is important in repairing damaged trust. Don't just say "I'm sorry," but be specific about why you are apologizing.

    ＜ Show through actions ＞
    It is important to show improvement through actions, not just words. Address the cause of the problem and do not repeat the same mistakes.

    ＜ Take your time ＞
    It takes time to repair trust. Don't be hasty, but move forward step by step. With time, you will gradually regain the trust that was damaged.

    ＜ Seek Professional Help ＞
    The process of repairing trust is complex and sometimes requires professional help. Counseling is an effective means of helping to repair the relationship.

    Building trust does not happen overnight. It is formed through a series of small daily actions. And while it is difficult to repair trust once it has been damaged, it is not impossible. If we work with sincerity, patience, and love, we can rebuild a stronger relationship of trust.

    The Center offers counseling for problems related to couples.
    Please do not worry alone, feel free to consult with us.

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/05/08 (Wed)

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    From Clash to Bonding: A Guide to Resolving Conflict in Couples

    There are not many couples who have never had a fight in their marriage.

    What is important is how to resolve these conflicts in a healthy way, and the process of finding a solution can make the relationship even stronger.

    So how can we overcome conflicts and deepen the relationship ？

    ＜ Confronting Conflicts Head-on ＞

    First, facing conflicts directly rather than avoiding them is important. Ignoring the issue may keep the peace for a time, but in the long run it can build up frustration and cause more problems. Share your views with each other through open communication.

    ＜ Explore the root cause of the problem ＞

    It is important not to dwell on the surface causes of the conflict, but to explore the underlying issues behind it. Often, superficial conflicts stem from deeper emotional needs and insecurities. By understanding each other's true feelings and needs, more effective solutions can be found.

    ＜ Give in to each other ＞

    Not every conflict needs to end in a "win/win" situation. It is possible for both sides to find a solution that satisfies both parties by making small concessions. Compromise shows respect for the other party and a commitment to the relationship.

    ＜ Emotional Control ＞

    It is very important to control your high emotions during a conflict. It is natural to feel anger and disappointment, but do not allow those emotions to dominate the discussion. Remaining calm will pave the way for a meaningful resolution.

    It is a common coping strategy, but it makes a lot of difference if you step away from the person or take a breath when you feel angry.

    ＜ Maintaining Positive Communication ＞

    When resolving conflicts, keep communication positive. Respect the other person's opinion and provide constructive feedback, not criticism. Remember to acknowledge the other person's good points and express appreciation.

    ＜ Seek Professional Help ＞

    Sometimes problems are difficult for couples to resolve alone. At such times, it is wise to seek professional help through counseling or therapy. A third party's perspective can help find new solutions to problems.

    Conflicts are also opportunities to test the relationship. Overcoming them can turn them into opportunities to understand each other better and strengthen the relationship. Healthy conflict resolution is an important step in strengthening the marital bond based on love and respect.

    The Center offers counseling for relationship restoration as well as divorce.
    Please do not worry alone.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • 2024/05/08 (Wed)

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    The Joy of Being Together: 5 Steps to a Strong Marriage

    Many of you have heard of partnership, but partnership is not just about spending time together, it is a long journey that two people walk together, growing together and supporting each other.

    In other words, it is not easy to continue to build a good relationship with the same person without breaking up or staying together for life.

    In this column, we will give you some pointers on how to build a good, long-lasting relationship with your partner.

    ＜ Set Common Goals ＞

    Having common goals as a couple is a great way to bond. It can range from buying a house, to educating children, to sharing hobbies.

    A common goal is something you both work toward together, rejoicing in your successes together and giving you the strength to face challenges.

    ＜ Supporting each other's growth ＞

    Supporting your partner's personal growth strengthens the relationship. It may be learning a new skill, advancing in a career, or pursuing a hobby. Support for each other's dreams and goals strengthens the bond and fosters mutual respect.

    However, if you prioritize your own learning time too much, or if this causes strain in your family, you will lose the best of both worlds. In such a case, let's discuss it thoroughly.

    ＜ Improve the quality of communication ＞

    Communication on a deeper level strengthens the foundation of the relationship. Discuss daily events as well as feelings, hopes, dreams, and fears. These conversations help to deepen mutual understanding and build stronger bonds.

    ＜ Turn everyday routines into something special ＞

    Cherish the small moments in your daily life. It is important to make time to share everyday routines together, such as cooking together or taking a walk together. These moments bring joy and satisfaction to the relationship.

    Simply put, they create an extraordinary experience.

    ＜ Set aside regular "us time" ＞

    Get out of your busy routine and set aside regular time for just the two of you. Set up a date or enjoy a weekend excursion or other special time together. Such time provides an opportunity to refresh your relationship and reaffirm your love.

    It is especially important for couples with children to make these times intentional.

    A strong partnership is not built overnight. It comes from small daily efforts and shared moments.

    However, there may be times when you understand it in your head but find it difficult to put it into practice, or when you intend to do so but your partner does not buy in.
    We offer counseling not only for divorce, but also for improving marital relationships.
    Please do not worry alone.

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    • 2024/05/10 (Fri)

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    Secrets to Making Love: A Guide to a More Fulfilling Sexual Life and Greater Intimacy

    Sexual life is an inseparably important theme in the consideration of the marital relationship.

    This goes beyond mere physical pleasure; it is a means of strengthening the bond between two people. This column will tell you how you can enhance your sex life and increase intimacy.

    ＜ Start with communication ＞

    The first step to increased intimacy is open communication. It is important to overcome shyness and discuss sexual desires and preferences.

    However, few couples are able to do this straightforwardly. Many women, in particular, may feel embarrassed or resistant.

    For this reason, why not start by respecting the other person's opinion and being honest about your feelings, even outside of your sexual life? This process is the foundation for understanding each other and building a deeper trusting relationship.

    ＜ Try something new ＞

    Get out of the routine of daily life and try something new in the bedroom.

    You don't have to use any special tools or do anything outrageous. For example, try wearing something a little different, or putting on a little smelly body cream.

    Small changes can bring freshness and increase intimacy.

    ＜ Don't forget to express your appreciation and affection ＞

    Express your appreciation and affection for your partner not only in your sexual relationship but in your daily life. Small expressions of affection, surprises, and words of appreciation are effective in increasing intimacy. Expressing love can strengthen your bond with your partner on a daily basis.

    Of course, it is natural, but if you are picky in your daily life, your partner will be confused if you suddenly make sweet noises at night.

    ＜ Set aside regular "us time" ＞

    Get out of your busy routine and set aside special time for just the two of you. A date night or weekend excursion is a great opportunity to enhance intimacy. Through these times, you can free yourselves from the stresses of everyday life and focus on each other.

    Sexual issues are a major key factor that can make or break a marriage. However, it is also a topic that is somehow avoided.

    In such cases, we would be happy to consult with a professional third party.

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    • Discount / Professional
    • 2024/05/16 (Thu)

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    Married Couples' Worries Resolved with Trial Line Phone Consultations ！ （ 10 Minute Free Campaign ）.

    Whether restoration or divorce, counseling is highly recommended for those who are having problems in their marital relationship. This time, we are running a campaign for a free 10-minute extension of the "Trial Line Phone Consultation" for a casual consultation ！ The regular 30-minute consultation fee is ¥2,750, but you can extend it by 10 minutes to 40 minutes.
    First, please search for our ID "@adr-center" on LINE and let us know 3 candidates for your preferred date and time on "Talk".

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/05/19 (Sun)

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    Expatriation makes couples unhappy⁈

    Have you ever noticed that your marriage was happy when you were in Japan, but after a while since you started your expatriate life, "something is not right" or "recently, arguments and fights have increased" ？

    In this video, Representative Koizumi talks about why expatriate couples tend to fall into marital discord. Representative Koizumi talks about why expatriate couples are prone to marital discord. Please take a look.

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    • 2024/05/20 (Mon)

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    How to Repair Marital Relationships While Abroad ？.

    Often, even couples who were happy together in Japan become somewhat strained after a few months of overseas assignment.
    One reason is that both spouses are subject to various stresses caused by living abroad, but is there anything that can be done in such cases? Please watch our video about such things.

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    • 2024/05/21 (Tue)

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    How to get a divorce while abroad ？ ？

    During your expatriate life, even if your marriage has deteriorated to the point of divorce, are there any of you who continue to live together in a difficult situation because you cannot ask for a lawyer or use the family court, as you can when you are in Japan? We have put together a video on how to solve such a situation, so please take a look.

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    • 2024/05/29 (Wed)

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    Four Ways to Support Financial Independence After Divorce to Consider When Your Marital Status Becomes Suspicious."

    When a couple's marriage becomes doubtful and the two words "divorce" come to mind, there is a big difference in emotional distress between thinking, "If push comes to shove, just get a divorce," and thinking, "I can't be financially independent, so I have to hang on to my marriage," even if the outcome is the same.

    Therefore, whether you divorce or not, I will tell you how to become financially independent so that you can think, "If I get sick of it, I can just divorce.

    1. Know your expenses

    To be financially stable after divorce, you must first consider how much money you （ or you and your children ） need to live on.

    Even if you say, "I have that figured out," try it for a few months. You will be surprised at how much you are spending. On the other hand, there is no need to keep track of every penny in detail. It is natural for monthly expenses to fluctuate, so it is important to keep a rough household account book for a few months to grasp the amount of money that "roughly costs this much.


    2. Establish an income projection

    If you are an expat wife, many of you are unemployed. So it is not easy to secure an income after divorce. However, income is not only salary.

    For example, if you have children, you can receive child support. Others may be able to expect public support, such as the so-called mother and child allowance, or assistance from your family.

    Including this kind of money, you should roughly consider your monthly income after the divorce.

    Having said that, you still want the main source of income to be the salary you earn from working. One way to do this is to start working before the divorce, and rather than rushing to work immediately, it is also useful in the long run to increase your market value through improving your skills and acquiring qualifications.

    3. Set aside emergency savings

    Life after divorce often involves unexpected expenses, so it is important to set aside an emergency savings account. Start by setting a goal of three to six months' worth of living expenses to start saving.

    Emergency savings will provide for illness, accidents, or unexpected repair costs, and will provide the foundation for a new life with peace of mind.

    Many people are able to secure this savings through property division at the time of divorce, but considering the lengthy divorce proceedings, it is safe to have at least 2 million yen ～ 3 million yen.

    4. Get professional advice

    It is also important to get professional advice on financial issues. You can consult with a financial planner or other financial advisor to help you develop a financial plan that works for you.

    You can also ask local government offices to tell you about post-divorce benefits. If you are overseas and have difficulty consulting with them, first call the local government where you plan to live after you return home.

    Summary

    As you can see, it is very comforting when you feel that you have financial prospects after divorce. Whether you divorce or not, if you are feeling insecure about your marriage, please give it some thought.

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    • 2024/06/02 (Sun)

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    Why do people do moral harassment? The surprising truth is …

    Moral harassment （ There are a wide variety of reasons for perpetrators of moral harassment ） but what reasons do you imagine?

    Perhaps you think of them as "bossy" because they are "bossy", "overconfident", or "look down on others".

    Of course, such an image is not wrong. However, what is surprisingly unknown is the "weak" side of the harasser.

    Today, I will tell you five characteristics of the harasser including such a weak side.

    ① The Desire to Control

    The harasser tries to gain a sense of superiority and security by dominating and controlling the other person.
    This means, on the flip side, that they need to control people to feel superior and secure.
    In other words, the moralizing appears as a way of coping with instability and uncertainty of the self.

    ② Insecurity and inferiority of self

    People with internal insecurity and inferiority tend to try to enhance their self-worth by putting others down.
    This is a kind of defense mechanism to distract from one's own problems.
    For example, a husband who failed his college entrance exams and did not get into a top university may lash out at his wife, who graduated from a less prestigious university than him,
    saying things like, "You are stupid.

    ③ The family environment in which they were raised

    has no small influence on their past experiences.
    For example, if one's father is a harasser of his mother, the probability that his son will become a harasser husband is much higher.
    From an early age, they learn the wrong kind of marital relationship, and naturally learn that it is okay for husbands to be bossy with their wives, and that it is okay to subdue their wives with abusive language and behavior.
    Also, people who grew up with abusive parents may not resolve the trauma and may express it as their own moral harassment.

    ④ Socio-cultural influences
    In some societies and cultures, dominant behavior and control of others is a symbol of "strength," and this can encourage moralizing behavior.
    Without fear of prejudice, I can tell you from my past experience that, for example, construction workers
    still have a workplace culture where language is abusive and senior workers strictly supervise junior workers.

    Also, people in professions called "teachers," such as lawyers and doctors, often have a tendency to be moral harassers.
    Lawyers, in particular, have to mount their opponents.
    So, even at home, they mistakenly think that they are great and that they are teachers.

    ⑤ Lack of Emotional Control
    Some people say that harassers act very calmly and do not "lose their temper ・ ・" or "lose their temper ・ ・" He says that he never does this.
    However, it often feels as if the harasser lacks the ability to properly control his or her emotions and tries to vent them by directing anger and frustration at others.

    Nowadays, a harasser can be a victim or a perpetrator itself, regardless of gender.
    I suggest that you take another look at your own marital relationship.

    Our center offers an on line phone consultation （ which you can feel free to use, for 2750 yen per 30 minutes ）.

    If you would like to talk to someone about your marital relationship, please search

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    • 2024/05/10 (Fri)

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    ■ ■ ■ Career change for Japanese-English bilinguals ・ For employment, please contact IIICAREER (IIICAREER)} ！ ■ ■ ■

    We are the largest network of Japanese-affiliated recruitment ・ agencies in the U.S. Our experienced consultants provide attentive service based on more than 27 years of experience and trust.

    We are the largest network of Japanese staffing agencies in the U.S.
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    Job Change ・ Free Assistance in Finding Employment
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    Using Job Navigator ®, our proprietary integrated database system that connects job seekers with employers, we offer a wide range of services for Japanese-English bilingual ・ non-bilingual We use Job Navigator , our proprietary integrated database system that connects job seekers with employers, to introduce a variety of positions that match your preferences and background, from entry-level Japanese-English bilingual to accounting ・ HR, general administration, sales, engineering, and executive-level positions.


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    Largest network in the Japanese industry
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    Cities ・ that get from the largest network in the U.S. We offer a variety of consultation services, including "live information" on job availability, economy, trends, and realistic job search information in each region.
    Locations ： New York, Jersey City, Washington DC, Cincinnati, Chicago, Atlanta, Nashville, Houston, Dallas, Silicon Valley, Los Angeles, (Honolulu Honolulu), Tokyo


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    Please contact us ！
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    We are happy to help you find a job after university graduation, or to discuss your new job with relocation support Please feel free to contact us at iiicareer NY branch.

    iiicareer | Interesse International Inc. NY Branch
    Website: https://iiicareer.com/
    Email: ny@iiicareer.com

    • Introduction / Professional
    • 2024/05/24 (Fri)

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    ◆◆◆◆ Intelesse International ： Cross-Country Transition ・ Employment ◆◆◆

    With the establishment of our Japan subsidiary, we are one of the few recruiting firms in Japan ・ that can provide "out of country placement" services prior to entry into the U.S. and Japan.

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    Name ： INTELESSE INTERNATIONAL JAPAN INC. iiicareer Division
    Address ： 1001, Create Kioi-cho, 3-31 Kioi-cho, Chiyoda-ku, Tokyo 102-0094
    Phone ： 03 -3288-7466
    Email ： applicant@iiicareer.jp
    Website ： https://iiicareer.jp/jpn/
    Permit number ： 13-yu-314891 ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝ ＝

    We know that some of you are looking for a job in Japan or are planning to return home. With the acceleration of globalization, the demand for Japanese ・ English bilinguals with specialized skills continues to rise in Japan, and the hiring of people to handle overseas business in Japan is increasing rapidly.

    In addition, in the U.S., where there is a shortage of human resources, we support your job search through online interviews between Japan and the U.S. prior to arrival in the U.S. for talented people from Japan who are needed by local ・ offices and who are available to work in the U.S.

    Please feel free to contact us for further information.

    INTELESSE International Japan Corporation
    Masato Fujiwara, President

    • Introduction / Beauty / Health
    • 2024/05/30 (Thu)

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    Stylist Yuya

    I have been a hair stylist for 15 years ✂ ︎ 11 years in Japan and 4 years in New York. If you live in New York but prefer trendy Japanese hairstyles ！, please visit us ！ ！
    We offer a wide range of styles from Japanese hairstyles to New York trends ！ If you have failed at a salon in New York, please visit us. If you have had a bad experience at a New York salon, we would be happy if you would visit us.
    We will make the best use of our experience in Japan and New York.
    We are looking forward to welcoming new customers ！.

    20% off with Yuya in charge ！.

    ヘアカットカラートリートメントパーマストレートパーマ
    • Useful info / Medical
    • 2024/05/31 (Fri)

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    Japanese speaking dentist. Over 25 years of experience seeing patients in Fort Lee.

    Do you have any dental or oral problems ？ From small children to adults, let's start by discussing your concerns at Lemoine Dental. We can help you in Japanese.

    With over 25 years of practice in Fort Lee, NJ, we are here to help you keep your teeth healthy forever.

    -Main Practice Areas-
    -General Dentistry
    Dental maintenance and cavity treatment （ including nerve treatment ）
    -Pediatric Dentistry
    Extraction of baby teeth, children's cavity treatment and prevention -Preventive Dentistry
    Cleaning and other dental health maintenance to prevent cavities and periodontal disease
    -Cosmetic Treatment
    Whitening, ceramics and other aesthetic treatment to keep teeth beautiful


    Not only doctors but also staffs can speak Japanese. Not only doctors but also staffs are available in Japanese, so please feel free to consult with us even if you have difficulty in communicating your symptoms in English.

    We can also handle insurance procedures on your behalf.

    虫歯治療小児歯科ホワイトニング神経治療
    • Wanted / Education / Lesson
    • 2024/05/29 (Wed)

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    New York Ikuei Gakuen] Join our Summer Program 2024 ？.

    This is the 42nd year that the school has held its annual Summer Program.

    We offer various programs such as day school for toddlers and elementary school, camp at Lake Greeley, baseball class, and Iroha Japanese class.

    Let's have a fun summer together ♪
    We look forward to seeing you ！

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    [Summer School for Infants]
    Period
    First Semester June 24 - July 12, 2024 (Sat ・ Sun vacation )
    Second Semester July 15 - July 26, 2024 (Sat ・ Sun holiday)

    Subjects Born between April 2, 2018 and April 1, 2021

    [Elementary Summer School]
    Duration
    1st semester June 24 - July 12, 2024 (Sat. ・ Sun. vacation )
    2nd semester July 15 - July 26, 2024 (Sat. Sunday off)

    Target:Born between April 2, 2012 and April 1, 2018

    [Camping at Lake Greeley]
    Period
    June 23 - July 7, 2024(15 days)
    Subject:Born between September 1, 2009 and April 1, 2018

    【Baseball Class】
    Activity time: 4:00pm - 5:30pm
    Period
    1st semester June 24 - July 12, 2024
    2nd semester July 15 - July 26 days
    Target: April 2, 2012 - April 1, 2018
    *Off days when elementary summer school overnight camp is held
    2 days in the first semester, 2 days in the second semester, 4 days in total

    【Iroha Japanese Class】
    Activity time: from 4:00pm 5:30 p.m.
    Period
    First semester: June 24 - July 12, 2024
    Second semester: July 15 - July 26, 2024
    Target: Children born between April 2, 2012 and April 1, 2018 (1st - 6th grade elementary school students)
    *Summer school for elementary school students
    2 days in the first semester, 2 days in the second semester, 4 days in total
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    Questions ・ If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us via [send message].

    For more information, please visit the NY Ikuei website at the following URL ！.

    サマースクールサマーキャンプ補習校学習塾