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ニューヨークに暮らす年配の独身女性たち
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- Akiko
- 2019/10/17 00:33
ニューヨークに来てから7月で1年が過ぎました。来る前に思い描いてたニューヨークの街と、来て住んでからの現実との違いに戸惑っている状況です。
自分がまだ学生(院生)だからだとは思いますが、思っていたよりずっと学校の多い街で、どこに行っても学生だらけなこと。大学にもよるでしょうけれど、学部生でも昼休みにお寿司屋さんにお寿司を食べに行ったり、プール付きのコンドでパーティーなど裕福な家の子息や子女も多いですよね。またそれとは対象的な人たちも多くいて、貧富の差のあまりの激しさに怖くなることが度々ありました。
こちらで知り合った日本人の女性には、50歳を過ぎても独身でいる人も多くて、生活もゆとりがあるとは思えず、他人事とは言え、自分の立場に当てはめてみると、ここで女性ひとり歳を取ってゆくことに不安はないのかと思ってしまいます。60歳を超えても帰れる実家なりがあり、働かなくても良い状況があるのからでしょうか?直接聞けば良いことですが、私には聞く勇気がありませんでした。彼女たちには、何か帰れない理由があるのでしょうか?
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- 3838
- 2019/10/20 (Sun) 15:20
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帰る人多いよ。
残るほうが少ない。
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- Sunflower
- 2020/06/02 (Tue) 10:23
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私はNYに住んで30年になりますが、仕事も友達にも恵まれている方だと思います。生まれつきのポジティブな態度が大いにそれに役立っているとは思いますが、勿論、日頃努力もしています。日本に帰ろうかなと思ったこともありますが、NYより景気が良いとは思えないし、意味のわからない決まりや伝統に従うつもりがないので現実的には無理があると思います。チャンスをつかもうという態度と努力を続ければ報われる可能性があるのは断然NYの方が多いので。日本人として日本に暮らす方が色々な意味で安全で楽ですよね。のほほんと暮らしたいなら日本がいいと思いますよ。自分の可能性にチャレンジしたいなら絶対にNYの方がやりがいがある。簡単に言えば何かをやりたい、やり遂げたいという気持ちがないのならここにいる意味は無いと思います。
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50歳代の独身日本人女性は日本にはもっと大勢います。ニューヨークに住む50歳代の独身女性は、アメリカ人にも大勢います。投稿主は、彼女の知り合いの年配の女性しか見ずに、事実を歪めてみているような気がします。本当は知り合いの女性が嫌いで、遠まわしに彼女を非難しているようにも取れます。この質問は、ニューヨークに住む50歳代の独身女性のサイバーブリーともとれる、質問のふりをしたネット虐めだと思います。この投稿主はかなり性格の良くない人だということだけはわかります。意地悪だからこのような考え方が出来るんだなと。自分のストレスを紛らわすために、全く関係の無い人まで巻き込んで非難して、自分を正当化するの自己中だからですね。
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