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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/23 (Tue)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ? Common Words and Actions #10

    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or
    feel that you cannot argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ?

    This may be because of
    his or her moral harassment, which you may not be aware of.

    In this 10th installment of a 10-part series, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    It is the wife who changes the subject and apologizes at the end

    Suppose the wife tells the harasser that she wants to express her opinion about something or wants him to stop.

    However, when they discuss it, before long the topics are switched and
    the end result is that the wife has to apologize.

    Many harassing husbands are outspoken.
    They also do not apologize or admit fault.
    Therefore, even if they have something they need to apologize for,
    they will change the subject and conclude that the wife is at fault.

    For example, do you remember the following conversation?

    My wife : I need to talk to you.

    Husband : What the hell. Make it quick.

    Wife : I'm really tired of all the horrible things you say to me every day.
    I can't do this anymore, will you divorce me?

    Husband : Divorce ? I don't mind. What kind of terrible things, for example ?

    Wife : You always tell me in front of my daughter that I don't make enough money, I'm a bad cook and I'm worthless.

    Husband : Because it's true. You're a stay-at-home mom, you don't make any money, and on top of that, you can't cook to my satisfaction. I'm just telling the truth, so it's not your fault for making those facts ?

    Wife : Sure I'm a housewife, but I take care of the kids so you can work outside the home.

    Husband : Oh come on, parenting is not that great. I'll take over for you then.
    I'll raise the kids, you go out and earn as much as I do.

    Wife : I can't do that on short notice.

    Husband : You're right. After all, you're living off my financial power.
    I come home tired from work, don't waste my rest time talking nonsense.

    Wife : I'm sorry ・ ・ ・

    Like this, I should have initiated divorce, but somehow I ended up apologizing.

    After a lot of experiences like this, you can't even open your mouth because you think that anything you say is useless or
    will be retorted back to you.

    If you think your husband may be a harasser ? please do not worry alone.


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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/22 (Mon)

    This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ? Common Words and Actions #9


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or unable to argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ?

    This may be because
    your partner is harassing you, but you are not aware of it.

    In this 8th of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Negative about everything

    Moral harassers tend to criticize their wives' every suggestion and opinion.

    Everything from the children's education policy to where to go on holidays.

    Therefore, his wife will deny anything he says or
    complain about anything he does, and
    she will lose interest in even talking to him.

    Also, sometimes, there are moral harassers who are critical not only of their wives' words and actions,
    but also of other people's words and actions, and even of the TV news.

    Moral harasser husbands only deny and do not offer alternatives or constructive opinions.

    When you live with such a husband, you naturally lose the desire to give your opinion.

    Living in an atmosphere of negativity and negativity makes us mentally depressed.

    Please feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below instead of worrying alone.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

    Free 10-minute extension of counseling session with Ms. Koizumi ! with the "Vivi...

    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/15 (Mon)

    This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ? Common Words and Actions #2


    Do you feel that your marital relationship is not going well for some reason, or that talking to your partner makes you feel depressed or bitter? ?

    Perhaps you are not aware of this, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    Starting with this 10-part series, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Trying to maintain financial dominance

    In some families, the wife manages the husband's salary and the husband has an allowance, but
    in most cases, the husband manages his own salary.

    He then gives his wife a fixed amount each month as living expenses,
    trying to show off that "I'm the one who makes our living."

    Also, the following problems arise when it comes to the monthly exchange of money.

    ・ I don't get enough money, so I have to cut into my savings from my single life
    ・ When I need something, I have to explain why I need it and my husband has to approve it before he pays
    ・ I have to provide receipts

    Money exchanges occur daily and can be
    very stressful.

    Not getting enough money is stressful, but
    having to explain why you need it, having to keep a detailed household account,
    and other such interactions can be mind-numbing.

    Why would a harassing husband go through all this trouble?

    It is not only to be "stingy" but also to let his wife know
    that he is superior and above her by taking charge of the family finances.

    This kind of economic harassment is also very damaging to feelings.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us through the individual counseling below.

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