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    • Introduction / Medical
    • 2024/05/07 (Tue)

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    Fertility Treatment Coordinator ・ Tomoko's Instagram, please visit.

    Tomoko ・, a Japanese coordinator at Global Fertility&Genetics, a fertility clinic in Manhattan, NY, provides
    the latest infertility treatments, patient testimonials, ・ birth reports, etc.
    causes of infertility, fertility tips, egg freezing, and various other information, including videos, in Japanese.

    We also occasionally post information on various campaigns and seminars （ and webinars ）.

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    We provide
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    Please visit our Instagram ！

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    • Problem solution / Professional
    • 2024/04/23 (Tue)

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    For those of you who work hard in the U.S., "Why don't you maximize your net worth through tax-saving measures?" Please contact us for a tax return as soon as possible.

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    If you earn income in the U.S., you must file a tax return （ Tax Return ）.
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    • Discount / Beauty / Health
    • 2024/04/24 (Wed)

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    • Introduction / Beauty / Health
    • 2024/04/30 (Tue)

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    Stylist Mao

    I have 13 years of experience as a hair stylist and 3 years as an eye stylist. I am good at hair arrangement and color matching according to your personal color, as well as hair cut suitability for bangs and around the face.
    Let's enjoy fashion together according to your lifestyle with the theme of creating a comfortable space ！.

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    • Introduction / Beauty / Health
    • 2024/04/30 (Tue)

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    Stylist Mami

    I have 11 years of experience as a hair stylist and 4 years as an eye stylist. I can empathize with customers because I am a female stylist, and I bring out the best in them by proposing hairstyles that suit their lifestyles and providing cheerful and calm customer service.
    She is also good at men's cutting.
    She has won many awards in overseas contests for her eyelashes and eyebrows. We offer delicate and high quality techniques.

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    • Discount / Professional
    • 2024/04/12 (Fri)

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/14 (Sun)

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    Possibly Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #1


    Are you someone who feels that your marriage relationship is not going well for some reason, or that talking to your partner makes you feel depressed or bitter? ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of this, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    Starting with this 10-part series, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    ① Ignoring or overbearing attitude
    You may think of moral harassment as direct and harsh words, but it can also manifest itself in ways such as ignoring, sighing, or tongue lashing.

    For example, on a daily basis, do you find that ？

    ・ your husband looks at you and sticks his tongue out at you when he doesn't like something
    ・ if you don't do what he says, he ignores you until you apologize
    ・ When the husband is frustrated, he shuts the door loudly
    ・ When the wife says something he doesn't like, he sighs loudly so she can hear

    Even if there is no aggressive verbal abuse, it is repeated daily These behaviors slowly drive the wife to the point of mental exhaustion. As a wife, every time her husband sighs or licks his tongue, she feels as if she is being blamed or yelled at.

    These actions are done to control the wife.
    If you find these attitudes of your husband difficult,
    please contact us at the individual counseling session below.

    To apply for counseling, please visit the following URL ！

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

    Free 10 minutes extra counseling time for all courses when you see Vivinavi ！ ！.

    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/15 (Mon)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #2


    Do you feel that your marital relationship is not going well for some reason, or that talking to your partner makes you feel depressed or bitter? ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of this, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    Starting with this 10-part series, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Trying to maintain financial dominance

    In some families, the wife manages the husband's salary and the husband has an allowance, but
    in most cases, the husband manages his own salary.

    He then gives his wife a fixed amount each month as living expenses,
    trying to show off that "I'm the one who makes our living."

    Also, the following problems arise when it comes to the monthly exchange of money.

    ・ I don't get enough money, so I have to cut into my savings from my single life
    ・ When I need something, I have to explain why I need it and my husband has to approve it before he pays
    ・ I have to provide receipts

    Money exchanges occur daily and can be
    very stressful.

    Not getting enough money is stressful, but
    having to explain why you need it, having to keep a detailed household account,
    and other such interactions can be mind-numbing.

    Why would a harassing husband go through all this trouble?

    It is not only to be "stingy" but also to let his wife know
    that he is superior and above her by taking charge of the family finances.

    This kind of economic harassment is also very damaging to feelings.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us through the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/16 (Tue)

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    Possibly Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Behaviors Part 3


    Do you feel that your marital relationship is not going well for some reason, or do you feel depressed or pained when talking to your partner? ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    In this third of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Jealousy and bondage

    The harasser thinks of his wife as his property or
    acts as he wishes.

    Therefore, he does not like it when his wife acts freely or seems to be enjoying herself.

    Also, it is sometimes inconvenient for the wife to gain knowledge or allies in the outside world
    in order to maintain power relations within the household.

    Therefore, the following restrictions or constraints may be imposed.

    ・ being uncomfortable when his wife wants to work
    ・ requiring his wife to complete housework ・ and childcare
    ・ as a condition for her to work

    limiting her socializing with friends Restrictions and constraints vary, and can include not only explicit restrictions, but also
    relentlessly asking "who are you meeting, where are you going, what time are you coming home?" to
    communicate that he or she doesn't want to be there.

    These husband's words and actions isolate the wife.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/17 (Wed)

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    Perhaps a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Behaviors Part 4


    Do you feel that your marital relationship is not going well for some reason, or do you feel depressed or pained when talking to your partner? ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be due to your partner's moral harassment.

    In this fourth of a series of ten articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Denying his wife's humanity

    Moral harassers tend to focus on their status in society and how much money they make

    Therefore, they look down on housewives or wives who earn less than them.

    And he sometimes says the following words to his wife.

    ・ Don't talk big to me when you don't make much money
    ・ You are a scumbag
    ・ You are not a good mother
    ・ You can't do anything on your own
    ・ You are crazy
    ・ you're not developmentally disabled ？ see a psychiatrist

    if you point out something specific that you say or do,
    we can correct that behavior.

    But if they say something like this that negates our entire humanity,
    we can't say anything back.

    At first you may think, "I am not the person to be told such things." but
    the daily denial makes you think, "Who am I?

    Please feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

    Free 10-minute extension of counseling with Representative Koizumi ！ for those w...

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/18 (Thu)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #5


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or unable to argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

    This may be because
    your partner is harassing you, but you are not aware of it.

    In this fifth of a series of ten articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Arguing right （ Frying ）

    Moral harasser husbands love to criticize their wives anyway.

    Therefore, he closely observes his wife's housework ・ and if there is anything she is not doing,
    he will tell her she is not doing this or that.

    Do you have any idea of the following?

    ・ Even when his wife is sick in bed, he tells her to "do her job as a housewife"
    ・ When he discusses his problems with friends or at work, he says "It's your fault"
    ・ He does not forgive even one failure
    ・ He always brings up his past of his wife's failures forever

    By nature, there are many things in life that are not perfect and cannot be explained by logic.

    When we are sick or not feeling well, we may neglect our housework ・ and childcare.

    It would be nice if he could look at his wife in this way and say, "We are human beings, and sometimes that happens.

    What is always done is taken for granted, and if he cannot do it even once, he blames you.

    By the way, it is a characteristic of the harasser husband to be harsh to others and kind to himself.

    Therefore, when he is sick or makes a mistake,
    he naturally asks his wife to follow up and understand.

    Normally, a wife would be able to point out that there is something wrong with her husband's attitude, but
    she loses that power when she is continuously subjected to moral harassment.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/19 (Fri)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #6


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or feel that you cannot refute something that is being said to you in a terrible way ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    In this sixth of a series of ten articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    He does not bend his opinion

    Wives who are victims of moral harassment often ask me the following questions.

    ・ My husband never bends his opinion
    ・ He keeps blaming me until I say 'yes'
    ・ Finally, for some reason I apologize.

    When couples have to discuss something or disagree,
    they usually concede to each other or change their positions each time.

    However, in the case of a harassing husband, there is no such thing as concession to his wife or accommodating her.

    Until the wife agrees with the husband, they will continue to talk unilaterally
    for an hour or two, even late at night.

    After repeating this, the wife feels that there is no point in saying anything, and that her rebuttal will only lengthen the discussion
    and she will stop giving her opinion.

    As the wife's own feelings that she has swallowed on the spot accumulate,
    they will eventually manifest themselves as physical illness and mental instability.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

    Free 10-minute extension of counseling with Representative Koizumi ！ for those w...

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/20 (Sat)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #7


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or feel that you cannot refute something that is being said to you in a terrible way ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    In this 7th of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Appearances, lying （ Distorting the story ）

    Moral harassers play the role of a good husband and father on the outside.

    This can be very painful for the wife.
    Here are some such examples.

    Husband ： Hey, is it just a side dish from the supermarket for dinner tonight ？ You are a housewife, so
    you should at least cook dinner properly.

    My wife ： isn't feeling well today ・ ・ ・.

    Husband ： You keep making excuses like that. At least go buy something a little better.

    Wife ： With the amount of money you are giving me, I can't afford to be so extravagant.

    Husband ： You insult my earnings ！

    ＜ Later, at a drinking party with mutual friends ＞

    Husband ： My wife is really scary ～.
    She's a stay-at-home mom, but she doesn't cook, and when I tell her I want something better to eat, she
    says she can't buy it because you don't make enough money ！.

    my husband's friend ： that's pretty tough. I feel sorry for you too.

    Husband ： Well, I'm a kind man, so I can tolerate a wife like that.

    Everyone ： hahahahaha.

    Wife ： （ looks down and blushes ）

    Like this, the harasser husband is good at criticizing his wife in front of friends and
    emphasizing and distorting the story for that.

    Also, even if he does not criticize his wife, he plays the role of a very good husband and father,
    so that people around him may not believe him when he discusses his husband's moral harassment.

    It is very difficult to not be able to talk to those around you about your pain, or to have them not understand
    even if you do.

    Please do not suffer alone, but feel free to contact us through the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/21 (Sun)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #8


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or unable to argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

    This may be because of
    his or her moral harassment, which you are not aware of.

    In this 9th of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Getting Children on Your Side

    Moral harassers are good on the outside, but they are also good at getting children on their side.

    Specifically, the following words and actions are seen.

    ・ Spewing bad words about his wife to his children
    ・ Defending his children when his wife is scolding them
    ・ Pointing out his wife's mistakes in front of his children
    ・ Showing himself as a better mother than his children
    ・ Leave his wife and go out with his children

    As children grow up, they are able to calmly judge their parents' words and actions.
    However, when they are still small, they may believe what they are told.

    Then it is hell for the wife.
    She feels isolated in the house, and most importantly, she feels as if her husband is taking her precious child.
    There is nothing more painful than this.

    Also, in the exact opposite pattern,
    a harassing husband may also act in a harassing manner towards his children.

    He may also force them to study or threaten them that he will not pay their school fees if they do not do what he says.

    By using this kind of "candy and whip," the harasser also controls the children.

    Once these family relationships become fixed, it is not easy to change them.

    Please contact us before it is too late.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • Useful info / Professional
    • 2024/04/22 (Mon)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #9


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or unable to argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

    This may be because
    your partner is harassing you, but you are not aware of it.

    In this 8th of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Negative about everything

    Moral harassers tend to criticize their wives' every suggestion and opinion.

    Everything from the children's education policy to where to go on holidays.

    Therefore, his wife will deny anything he says or
    complain about anything he does, and
    she will lose interest in even talking to him.

    Also, sometimes, there are moral harassers who are critical not only of their wives' words and actions,
    but also of other people's words and actions, and even of the TV news.

    Moral harasser husbands only deny and do not offer alternatives or constructive opinions.

    When you live with such a husband, you naturally lose the desire to give your opinion.

    Living in an atmosphere of negativity and negativity makes us mentally depressed.

    Please feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below instead of worrying alone.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • 2024/04/23 (Tue)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #10

    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or
    feel that you cannot argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

    This may be because of
    his or her moral harassment, which you may not be aware of.

    In this 10th installment of a 10-part series, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    It is the wife who changes the subject and apologizes at the end

    Suppose the wife tells the harasser that she wants to express her opinion about something or wants him to stop.

    However, when they discuss it, before long the topics are switched and
    the end result is that the wife has to apologize.

    Many harassing husbands are outspoken.
    They also do not apologize or admit fault.
    Therefore, even if they have something they need to apologize for,
    they will change the subject and conclude that the wife is at fault.

    For example, do you remember the following conversation?

    My wife ： I need to talk to you.

    Husband ： What the hell. Make it quick.

    Wife ： I'm really tired of all the horrible things you say to me every day.
    I can't do this anymore, will you divorce me?

    Husband ： Divorce ？ I don't mind. What kind of terrible things, for example ？

    Wife ： You always tell me in front of my daughter that I don't make enough money, I'm a bad cook and I'm worthless.

    Husband ： Because it's true. You're a stay-at-home mom, you don't make any money, and on top of that, you can't cook to my satisfaction. I'm just telling the truth, so it's not your fault for making those facts ？

    Wife ： Sure I'm a housewife, but I take care of the kids so you can work outside the home.

    Husband ： Oh come on, parenting is not that great. I'll take over for you then.
    I'll raise the kids, you go out and earn as much as I do.

    Wife ： I can't do that on short notice.

    Husband ： You're right. After all, you're living off my financial power.
    I come home tired from work, don't waste my rest time talking nonsense.

    Wife ： I'm sorry ・ ・ ・

    Like this, I should have initiated divorce, but somehow I ended up apologizing.

    After a lot of experiences like this, you can't even open your mouth because you think that anything you say is useless or
    will be retorted back to you.

    If you think your husband may be a harasser ？ please do not worry alone.


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    • Press Release / Media
    • 2024/04/24 (Wed)

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    If you don't start it, it won't begin." Group Exhibition to Introduce Japanese Contemporary Art

    New York ・ One Art Space Gallery in the Tribeca district will hold a limited time group exhibition for two sessions starting May 8. Under the theme of "If you don't start, it won't start. the works of a total of 38 up-and-coming artists active in Japan will be gathered under the theme of "If you don't start, you can't start. The exhibition will showcase their enthusiasm to explore the possibilities in the U.S. and their unique worldview.

    Aoi Hanane, who creates meticulous and fantastic works using only a blue pen; EMI ・ KIBAYASHI, who creates playful yet harmonious mixed media works that symbolize Japanese culture; and Aoi Hanane, who aims to sublimate physical The exhibition will feature works by contemporary Japanese artists who are pioneering their own unique approaches, such as Akie Abe, who aims to sublimate physical complexes through art.

    Their works are filled with new challenges and possibilities. Through their art, we hope you will discover a new world and resonate with their power to create their own future.

    Group art exhibition
    BREAKTHROUGH -New and Rising Japanese artists -
    At One Art Space Gallery 23 Warren St, New York, NY 10007 ）

    [1st session]
    May 8, 2024 （ Wed ） - May 12, 2024 （ Sun ） 12:00 - 18:00
    Reception Party ： May 9 （ Thu ） 18:00 - 20:00
    Live Painting Event （ Calligraphy&Drawing ） ： May 11 （ Sat ） 18:00 - 20: 00
    [2nd session]
    May 15, 2024 （ Wed ） - May 19, 2024 （ Sun ） 12:00 - 18:00
    Reception Party ： May 16, 2024 （ Thu ） 18:00 - 20:00
    Live painting event （ Calligraphy&Footprint painting ） ： May 18 （ Sat ） 18:00 - 20:00

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    • 2024/05/05 (Sun)

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    What is the magic wand that keeps a good marriage ？ ？

    Communication is the "magic wand" of the marital relationship. When wielded correctly, it can deepen the love between a couple, but when mishandled, it can turn into a briar thorn of frustration and misunderstanding. In order for couples to understand each other deeply, it is essential to hone the art of communication. So how can we learn to use this "magic wand" better ？

    ＜ A Sense of Choosing Words ＞

    First, word choice is important. Avoid critical or offensive language, and use words such as "I... feel" or "I need... need," choose words that express your feelings and needs. This allows for a more open dialogue without making the other person defensive. This way of communicating is called an "I-message.

    For example, let's say the person you are talking to is always late and you always feel bad about it. Instead of saying, "Why are you always late ！," you can say, "It bothers me so much when you are late because it makes it impossible for me to make plans." This is a way of communicating.

    ＜ The Virtue of Listening ＞

    Listening to the other person is of utmost importance. While the other person is speaking, focus all your attention there. Look them in the face, nod your head, and try to understand their emotions. This will make the other person feel valued and create a space where they can speak freely about what they want to say. Responding animatedly while looking at your phone, is a no-no.

    Think back to the beginning of your relationship. You must have been acting like that because you wanted to be trusted by your partner and to build a good relationship with him or her.

    ＜ The Power of Nonverbal Communication ＞

    You can communicate love in ways other than words. For example, positive nonverbal communication such as hugs, holding hands, and kind glances can do more than words. These small gestures can convey great reassurance and affection.

    If your relationship is already deteriorating and you can't do that, start by looking them in the eye.

    ＜ The Power of Problem Solving ＞

    When problems arise, focus on solving them, not attacking. Instead of, "Can you..." Rather than, "How can we ？ solve the problem?" it is important to be willing to work together to solve the problem. This increases the sense that the two of you are a team.

    ＜ Finding Expressions of Love ＞

    Find ways to express love that your partner values most. Different people feel love in different languages: words, time, service behaviors, gifts, physical contact, etc. Understanding each other's "love languages" and expressing love accordingly will deepen your relationship.

    Communication in a marital relationship is truly magical. By skillfully using this "magic wand," you can deepen your understanding of each other and your love for each other. Starting today, use these tips to create new magic in your marital relationship ？

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    • 2024/05/04 (Sat)

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    Marital relations will improve if you learn to handle your emotions better⁈

    ・ I tend to get emotional
    ・ I can't communicate my feelings well
    ・ I can't tell what my partner is thinking

    Issues such as these are the main problems that haunt couples.

    So often, if you and your partner can handle your emotions correctly, your relationship will be more fulfilling and satisfying. This column offers specific ways to improve your understanding and expression of emotions.

    ＜ Identify Emotions Specifically ＞

    Before you express your emotions, first identify what you are feeling specifically. If you feel "frustrated," ask yourself, "Why am I frustrated ？ Maybe it's from anxiety ？?" Naming the emotion will help you identify its cause and how to deal with it.

    Then, you may find that what you thought was irritating about what the other person was saying or doing was the cause or root of the problem, which was your distrust of the other person or your sense of inferiority.

    Suppose, for example, your partner attends a drinking party attended by the opposite sex. At such a time, you are waiting for your partner to come home with a very irritated feeling. Where does that irritation come from?

    It may be that you are not simply angry with your partner, but that your partner's behavior in the past has made it difficult for you to trust him or her, or it may be rooted in a sense of inferiority that says, "I'm going to be thrown away soon anyway.

    ＜ Keeping an Emotion Diary ＞

    In couple counseling, I often feel that people are surprisingly unaware of their feelings.

    For example, when I ask, "What kinds of things do couples often quarrel about ？?" many people say, "Little things." but they cannot be very specific.

    It is difficult to understand what makes them angry, what situations make them want to cry, even about themselves.

    In such cases, you can understand your emotional patterns by recording your daily emotions. By tracking what emotions arise in what situations, you will gain a better understanding of yourself and be able to express your emotions appropriately.

    ＜ Expressing Emotions Non-Aggressively ＞

    When communicating emotions, avoid using accusatory "you are - therefore I am -" language and focus on your feelings by saying "I feel -. This will make the other person less defensive and allow for a more constructive conversation. This is called an "I message.

    ＜ Accept your partner's emotions ＞

    When your partner is expressing emotions, it is important to listen carefully and try to understand. Do not interrupt the other person, but accept the emotion and show empathy. This allows the other person to talk openly about his or her feelings.

    Listening carefully and empathizing with the other person's feelings is not equal to bending your opinion to agree with them.

    Once you have heard and understood the other person's point of view, you can still express your own opinion.

    If you are not sure about the abstract, just try to "listen to the other person's side of the story".

    ＜ Exploring the Needs Behind Emotions ＞

    Emotions often arise from unmet needs. When listening to a person's emotions, try to understand what the needs behind them are. This will bring you closer to a fundamental solution to the problem.

    For example, suppose your partner gets grumpy every time you go home to your parents. What are the needs behind that grumpiness? Maybe he wants more attention for himself, or he wants you to spend more time with your family. Or perhaps they want you to go home with them to your own family, or they are concerned about the cost of returning home.

    ＜ Share positive emotions too ＞

    Be willing to share positive emotions such as joy and gratitude. Sharing positive emotions strengthens the relationship and deepens our understanding of each other.

    Very often when a couple's relationship is deteriorating, this is not being done. As a clue to improvement, try to offer cheerful topics of conversation, such as what you enjoyed today, what was delicious, or anything else you can think of.

    ＜ When emotions run high, temporarily keep your distance ＞

    When emotions run high and you cannot talk calmly, it is useful to temporarily keep your distance. Discuss again when you have cooled down. Taking this time will allow for a more constructive dialogue. After a heated argument, do you sometimes regret saying "I said too much" when you think about it after a night's sleep? Apologizing there may improve the relationship, but too much arguing can be irreversible.

    ＜ Seek Professional Help If Needed ＞

    If you are struggling to manage or express your emotions, seeking professional help through counseling or therapy is an option. Having a professional intervene can help you become aware of communication habits and points of failure that you may not be aware of on your own.

    Understanding and properly expressing feelings can have a significant impact on the well-being of a couple's relationship. By practicing these steps, you can strengthen your relationship with your partner and make it more satisfying.

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    • 2024/05/07 (Tue)

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    How to Repair Shattered Trust ？ A Revitalization Guide for Couples

    I don't trust you anymore."
    "If you don't trust me, we'll have to break up."

    Many of us have probably had this kind of exchange.

    Trust is essential to a good marriage. In this column, I would like to share with you what actions are effective in building trust and how to repair trust once it has been damaged.

    ＜ Honesty ＞
    Telling the truth is the most basic element of trust. Even small lies can become big problems when they accumulate. Being truthful is the key to building trust. In other words, not lying is the most basic of basics.

    ＜ Keep Your Promises ＞
    Keep what you promise, no matter how small. Keeping your word is proof that your word is trustworthy.

    ＜ Consistency ＞
    Consistency of behavior is also important in building trust. Predictable and consistent behavior puts others at ease.

    ＜ Expressing Appreciation ＞
    Showing appreciation for your partner's actions and recognizing their efforts makes them feel valued and deepens trust.

    ＜ Support ＞
    Supporting your partner during difficult times is a powerful way to build trust. Supporting each other strengthens the bond between two people.

    ＜ Admit ＞
    Admitting mistakes and openly discussing them is the first step in repair. Don't be defensive; accept responsibility.

    ＜ Apologize ＞
    A sincere apology is important in repairing damaged trust. Don't just say "I'm sorry," but be specific about why you are apologizing.

    ＜ Show through actions ＞
    It is important to show improvement through actions, not just words. Address the cause of the problem and do not repeat the same mistakes.

    ＜ Take your time ＞
    It takes time to repair trust. Don't be hasty, but move forward step by step. With time, you will gradually regain the trust that was damaged.

    ＜ Seek Professional Help ＞
    The process of repairing trust is complex and sometimes requires professional help. Counseling is an effective means of helping to repair the relationship.

    Building trust does not happen overnight. It is formed through a series of small daily actions. And while it is difficult to repair trust once it has been damaged, it is not impossible. If we work with sincerity, patience, and love, we can rebuild a stronger relationship of trust.

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